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Why is Wellbeing Important?

You wouldn’t build a house without a plan. Your life shouldn’t be any different.

Too many men push through each day running on fumes, hoping things will just “settle down.” But the truth is—no one’s coming to do it for you. You’re the builder here. And the good news? You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. You just need a plan—and a reason to follow through.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress. One habit. One choice. One brick at a time.

This page will help you:

Check in with where you’re really at

Understand what makes up a solid foundation

Build a simple, personal plan that works for your life

Start showing up stronger—in your body, your mind, and your mission

You’ve built for others. Now it’s time to build for yourself.

Let's Check Your Current Wellbeing Levels

Your Wellbeing Plan will comprise of the following 5 areas:

  • Energy: “How often do you wake up feeling rested and ready?”

  • Clarity: “How well are you managing stress right now?”

  • Connection: “How supported do you feel by your mates or people around you?”

  • Purpose: “How clear are you on what you're building toward?”

  • Resilience: “When life knocks you, how quickly do you bounce back?”

It is important to understand where to focus your attention when building your Wellbeing Plan. Our quick tool (below) will support you in understanding your current position.

Important: Your results are not automatically saved. Therefore it is advisable to either write them down or take a picture.

The 5 Pillars of Wellbeing

Before you build your Wellbeing Plan, it's important that you understand the '5 Pillars', why they are important and how you can best utilise them to benefit your wellbeing. 

Energy

Sleep, Movement, Nutrition

Your energy is your fuel. Without it, everything feels harder. Energy comes from quality sleep, movement, good food, and time to recharge. It’s the foundation that keeps you going. Want to show up strong for others? Start by looking after your own battery Improve your sleep habits: Commit to a consistent bedtime, reduce blue light exposure an hour before sleep, and create a calm, device-free bedroom. Move your body daily: Whether it’s a 20-minute walk, a gym session, or stretching in the morning, movement builds momentum and boosts your mood. Fuel your body well: Swap processed foods for whole meals when you can. Start with one small change, like a healthy breakfast or cutting out sugary snacks during the week. Build in recovery time: Take proper breaks. Step outside. Breathe. Give yourself permission to rest without guilt

Clarity

Stress, Mindset, Focus

Mental clarity sharpens your focus and decision-making. It helps you rise above the noise and stress. When you think clearly, you live intentionally Start a morning journaling habit: Just five minutes with a notebook—write your thoughts, what you’re grateful for, or your top focus for the day. Reduce the noise: Set time limits for social media. Create screen-free zones (like your bedroom or mealtime). Try a digital detox one day a week. Reflect weekly: Block 15 minutes every Sunday to look back on your week—what worked, what didn’t, and what to adjust. Practice stillness: Try 10 minutes of meditation, breathing exercises, or just sitting quietly with your coffee before the day takes over.

Connection

Mates, Support, Relationships

We’re not meant to go it alone. Real strength comes from real connection—mates you can talk to, family you show up for, and people who’ve got your back Reconnect with old mates: Send that text. Make the call. Suggest a catch-up over coffee, a walk, or the game on Saturday. Be present at home: Put your phone away at dinner. Ask better questions. Really listen when your partner or kids speak. Find your crew: Join a sports team, a gym class, a men’s group, or a community project. It’s not just what you do, it’s who you do it with. Show up consistently: Schedule regular connection—once a week, once a month—and treat it like any other important appointment.

Purpose

Meaning, Goals, Direction

Purpose gives your effort meaning. It’s the thing that gets you up, keeps you going, and guides you when life gets tough. Without it, we drift. With it, we build. Reconnect with your ‘why’: Ask yourself—what gives me energy? What do I want to be remembered for? Write it down. Set a personal goal: Something small but meaningful—a 30-day challenge, learning a new skill, helping someone else. Progress creates purpose. Bring more meaning to the day-to-day: Find purpose in how you show up at work, with your family, or for yourself—not just what you achieve. Give something back: Volunteer, mentor someone younger, or just do one act of kindness a week. Purpose often grows when we give.

Resilience

Grit, Bounce-back ability

Resilience is your bounce-back muscle. It’s built by facing challenges, learning, and getting back up stronger. Life will test you—your job is to grow from it. Reflect on past setbacks: Write about a time you got knocked down and got back up. What did you learn? How did it shape you? Do one hard thing daily: Take the cold shower. Finish the run. Have the tough conversation. Small wins build strength. Create your support system: List the people you can call when life hits. Be intentional about checking in with them too. Shift your mindset: Practice seeing challenges as opportunities. When something feels hard, ask: “What can this teach me?”

Build Your Plan

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